Tier 1 · Free

Where are you playing small?

12 questions, no wrong answers. At the end you get your settling score and The Identity Audit guide, free.

Someone offers you a bigger role than the one you applied for. You…List the reasons it’s too soonAsk if they’re sure, so nobody is let downSay yes in your head and “let me think” out loudSay yes, then work out the rest

The bill is split evenly and you had the salad. You…Pay it. It’s not worth the mathsPay it. It’s not worth the moodDraft the sentence, then let the moment passSay what you owe and pay that

You have a free Saturday and no one to answer to. You…Catch up on what you’re behind onCheck who needs something firstPlan the thing you’d love, then run out of dayDo the thing you’d love, first

A friend asks what you actually want from the next two years. You…Give the answer that sounds reasonableChange the subject, gentlySay the real thing, then apologise for itSay the real thing and let it sit

In a meeting, you disagree with the plan. You…Assume they’ve already thought of itNod, and soften it in a message laterWord it perfectly in your head until the topic moves onSay it plainly, while it’s useful

When you picture your life in five years, it looks…A lot like now, with a bit more moneyLike whatever works for the people around youVivid — and you’ve never shown it to anyoneVivid, and you’re already making moves toward it

You get a compliment on work you’re proud of. You…Point out what could have been betterHand the credit to someone elseSay thanks, then spend a week wishing you’d said moreSay thank you and let it land

The number you’d like to charge, or ask for, is…Unrealistic in this marketAwkward for the person hearing itOne you’ve practised and never saidOne you’ve said out loud to the person who decides

Someone you love calls your big idea “a bit much”. You…Agree. It probably isScale it down so they’re comfortableKeep it quietly and stop mentioning itKeep it, and keep mentioning it

The thing you’ve wanted to start for over a year hasn’t started because…The timing isn’t sensible yetIt would take time from people who rely on youThe plan isn’t finishedIt has. You started

When you walk into the room that matters most, your body…Braces, and lowers your expectations for youScans for who needs putting at easeRuns the script one more timeSettles. It’s just a room

Be honest: the life you have right now is…Fine — and fine is a reasonable thing to wantGood for everyone in it, which is what mattersA waiting room for the one you keep visualisingOne you chose on purpose, and keep choosing

What you get

Small quiz, specific answer

Three minutes
Twelve quick questions about the rooms you shrink in.
Your settling score
One number, and the specific pattern behind it.
One thing to tap on
An EFT script for the belief your answers point at.

Where are you playing small?

Small quiz, specific answer

Three minutes

Your settling score

One thing to tap on